Sex Toys Make Some Things Easier
It’s easier for many women
to orgasm with a vibrator, it’s easier for women to get
clitoral stimulation during intercourse with a vibrator, it’s
easier to reach the G Spot and the prostate with a sex toy,
it’s easier to prolong an erection with a sex toy--the list
could go on and on. The beauty of making things easier during
sex is that you can sit
back and enjoy the ride instead of worrying about whether
you’re going to cum or if you’re going to cum too soon,
you can relax and focus solely on the pleasure at hand.
Sex Toys Help You Break Out of a Routine
Do you require a
certain stroke to masturbate, a particular position to orgasm,
or a just-so lick during oral sex? Sex toys can expand your
range, offering certain types of stimulation that hands or
tongues can’t. A penis sleeve might tickle your fancy, a strap
on vibrator might free you up to try different intercourse
positions, or a small vibrator might add a delightful extra buzz
to your next blow job. Think of sex toys as adding more entrees
to an ever-expanding sexual buffet.
Sex Toys Inspire Sexual Confidence
By picking up a sex toy and
pressing it to your genitals, you are taking responsibility for
your sexual needs and desires. In a culture where we learn very
little about sexual pleasure, this act alone is impressive.
Rather than waiting passively for someone to fulfill all your
sexual needs, you take matters into your own hands. As a result,
you learn more about your sexuality, you gain greater
self-confidence and expertise, and you’re more likely to have
satisfying sexual encounters in the future.
Sex Toys Spice Up Partner Sex
As I mentioned in the
introduction, despite their reputation as singles’ playthings,
sex toys actually enhance partner sex play by enabling you do
certain things you might not otherwise be able to—whether
it’s a vibrator adding just the right clitoral stimulation
during intercourse, or a butt plug that makes coming from
prostate stimulation possible. Over the years I’ve heard from
hundreds of couples who describe toy experiences that changed
their lives—whether they discovered a new erogenous zone,
learned to climax together for the first time, or enjoyed a
renewed passion because of a sex toy.
Sex Toys Make the Mood
You’ll discover that certain types of
sex play beg for some sex toy accessories. That back caress may
feel even better when it’s given with a warming oil, that kiss
may resonate even more deeply if your hands are tied to the bed
posts, and that cyber fling might short circuit your computer if
you’re wearing a vibrator. Adding sex toys can incite your
imagination and lend just the right spark of adventure to your
love life.
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